Free intro call
Twenty minutes with both of you, to hear what's recurring and check coaching is the right fit.
Online · Both partners, same call
Stop having
Stop having
the same fight.
Most couples don't have a hundred problems. They have three, on a loop, with a pattern that starts the same way every time. We work on the pattern rather than relitigating the dishes.
- 6–10weeks per program
- 48 hfor a written reply
- 6 maxin a group session
- $0intro call
The programs
Four programs for the conversations that keep going wrong
We work on how you talk to each other, not on deciding who was right last Thursday.
Everyday communication
Listening without preparing a rebuttal, saying what you need plainly, and a weekly check-in that takes fifteen minutes.
See the programThe recurring fight
Map the argument you've had fifty times: what starts it, what each of you does next, and where to interrupt it.
See the programMoney & chores
The two most common arguments in a household: who pays for what, and who is quietly doing everything.
See the programTime together
For couples who function well and barely talk: rituals that survive work, kids and exhaustion.
See the program
How it works
Both of you, same call, practical exercises
Sessions are structured and specific. Nobody is assigned the role of the problem.
Name the pattern
We describe the loop in neutral language you both recognize.
Practice between sessions
Short exercises to do at home, where the arguments actually happen.
Weekly review
What worked, what fell apart, and what changes for next week.
Plans
Pick your level of support
Month to month, cancel anytime. Prices are per couple. The 20-minute intro call is free.
Group sessions
A weekly session with a few other couples working on the same things.
$49/ month
- One 90-minute live session each week
- Six couples maximum
- Exercises to do together at home
- Worksheets for check-ins and chores
- Replays for 30 days
Couple coaching
Private sessions for the two of you, with a plan for your pattern.
$139/ month
- One 50-min session every two weeks
- Personal 6 to 10 week plan
- Written check-in every week
- Exercises chosen for your situation
- Access to all group sessions
Intensive
For a rough stretch: a move, a new baby, or a period of real distance.
$269/ month
- One 50-min session each week
- Replies within 24 hours
- Individual check-in calls when useful
- Structured plan for a specific decision
- Access to all group sessions
Prices in USD. Cancel anytime, no contract.
How we work
Coaching, and clear about what it isn't
This is communication coaching. It is not couples therapy, and we are not licensed therapists. If there's untreated addiction, an affair you're still in, depression, or anything involving fear, therapy is the right call and we'll say so on the first conversation.
For the very common case — two people who care about each other and keep having the same argument — structured practice works well. We name the pattern, interrupt it, and give you something to do instead.
Frequently asked
The questions we get most
How is this different from couples therapy?
Therapy is clinical work by a licensed professional and can address mental health conditions and deep history. Coaching is structured practice on present-day communication. If therapy is what you need, we'll tell you.
Does my partner have to come?
For most programs, yes — both of you on the same call. If your partner won't attend, we can work with you individually, but we'll be honest about the limits.
What if there's abuse in the relationship?
Coaching is not appropriate and can make things more dangerous. Please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (or text START to 88788), which is free, confidential and available 24/7.
Is it confidential?
Yes, between us and you as a couple. Note that coaching is not a legally privileged relationship the way licensed therapy can be, so we don't recommend it for anything related to litigation.
We're not married. Is that fine?
Yes. Dating, partnered, married, living apart — the patterns are the same. Same-sex and non-monogamous couples are equally welcome.
Can we cancel anytime?
Yes. No contract, no minimum term. Access stays open until the end of the month you already paid for.
Which argument keeps coming back?
Twenty minutes with both of you, free, to name the pattern and see whether coaching fits.